Cat,. I'm of an extreme dual nature like a cat; sometimes snotty, unimpressed and distant and other times just as purring and playful. I've got claws, I cant resist playing with rope. I like to pounce. There are so many ways I'm just a big kitty, of which these are only a small few.
Top, of course... I don't even know why you had to ask.
One where I can access all points of entry, genitals, nipples and souls of the feet.
Blech... Well maybe Globe Trotters are okay. I'm an art brat... I'm into the NEA not the NBA.
There are quite a few. One old one on the OWK site and a really old one on Lady Aylha's Realmstone, one at FIXE magazine, Toxic Treat I think, one at Dickie Virgin's site and many more sites are out there that I can't recall off the top of my head.
It's more visible to those of us live a lot of time on line, but when I interract with people that are outside the lifestyle community and not a web junkie, it actually seems as if just as many of them are in the dark about this world as there ever was before.
I think there are just as many Dominants as subs, but I think the issue is a Dominant doesn't NEED a sub (but finds the right sub a pleasant addition to their life), but a sub feels incomplete with out a Dominant... so you see where the laws of supply and demand are stacked.
I am a HUGE rope bondage fiend. I love all forms of bondage and, yes, mummification is among my my faves.