MistressGenevieve
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Thursday, October 21, 2010
Racial and Politically INcorrect Humiliation
I recently had an email asking if I accept requests for EXTREME racial humiliation which inspired me to share this old article I once wrote on my philosophy regarding this requested scene and personal opinions on racism outside of role-play; out in the real world.

Though I do accept such requests and am extremely talented with verbal humiliation and degradation of all sorts, I always find myself feeling the need to clarify I don't support bigotry in real life and want to be certain not to mistakenly be confused as a bigot/racist by accident. I hate trash, and trash exists in every color, every sex and every sexuality, but you can't always identify "trash" without closer inspection, and if you don't take closer inspection before labeling one as "trash", often you will find you've misjudged, when you do.

For your enjoyment, information, "food for thought" and discussion, here is the original article I wrote about "Racial and Politically Incorrect Humiliation"... enjoy:
Not to long ago I saw the big media hoopla about Prince Henry
dressing as an SS soldier and the half of My duality that tends
towards being judgemental (though it thinks itself to be liberal) for
a brief second was offended as the media dictated I should be...
The other half of Me, the half that is truely liberal (yet liberals
don't think it to be nor does this half of Myself concider itself to
be liberal) sought to fight for the underdog...no matter how
politically incorrect it seemed to be.

So where did this half of Me wander before forming it's less hasty,
societaly programmed opiniion of the situation? It started to
reference the dark element of the human race that is seldom seen in
an honest light anywhere other than in BDSM, and particularly pro-
domination.

It's funny, submissives, masochists and fetishists will open up about
things to a pro-domme that they won't even admit to in a lifestyle
situation...and one such thing is the existance of racial humiliation
fetishism, and other simular situations in which a person is non-
consensually persecuted in the vanilla world, yet in the dungeon the
same racist biggotted humiliation turns from a miserable reality into
a hot fantasy.

Being that I look like the epitomy of the German frauline it is no
big surprise that there has been some request that I role-play a
very "Ilsa: She Wolf of the SS" type. What might shock you is just
who it almost always is that has such a fantasy request...jews.
It isn't just the jews and their fantasy of the darkest moment of
their cultures past. I have bared played with black men who want to
be plantation slaves. This is not easy for some to do, much less
understand.
Though I personally was able to digest these fetishes easy I had a
really difficult time accepting a related fetish had by some gay boys
that want to be "bot bitches" to homo-phobic neo nazis.
Many confuse such a fetish with someone being full of self loathing,
but I can offer up some other theories on the subject. I cannot deny
that some do self loath, but not all people who share this fetish
role-play come from such a dark place. As with all things in the
world, especially BDSM, there is just as much a chance that it
originated in a negative place as there is that it came from a
nuetral place or even a positive one.

So where might these things unlikely fetishes come from?
My first hypothesis is that where an anglo-saxon protestant hetero-
sexual male has always had a multitude of media fantasies of fetishes
of Femme Dommes to reference, such as comic booc heros and villains,
and catholic martyrs these other submissives didn't have such
readily available fantasy inspiration.

A modern jewish submissive doesn't have much exposure to catholic
guilt and all the millions of sado-masochistic images that greatly
influence the stereo-typical dungeon scene, they don't have the
Spanish inquisition...and though they could go back as far as the
anciant Egyptian culture dominating jewish slaves it is far more
reasonable to reference the most modern events that could paralel
slavery...the nazis.

The black submissive is much the same as the jewish submissive in
this way. To look at the movie screne and see a very anglo-man
suffering to a woman is not as easy to project himself into the role
as it is to that of one that is part of their cultural history.
Imagining themself under the whip of a lusty, wanton plantation
Mistress is much less a stretch.
The gay submissive male has their whole own reason. With neo-nazi
neanderthal gay bashing and other crimes against gays so fresh there
is not just the intensity of such a brutal scene for the most hard-
core gay subby...but there is also a sense of triumph and justice
when they seduce a homophobic brute to accept them as a "boot boy",
especially when they break such a "Master" to the point that they are
allowed to sexually service them, not just take humiliation and
torture. Unfortunately this fantasy turned reality has often gone
bad when the homophobic top suddenly realises that he is infact a
participant in gay sex, much less that he enjoys it.

In My further seeking to understand such a fetish (which is harder
being an anglo-saxon protestant/germanic woman with no shortage of
imagery to reference about My upbringings) I started to look for
counter parts to this phenomena...
I was amused to find out about an Armenian Mistress in the Los
Angeles area that specialises in owning and getting some sense of
justice through her stable of Turkish slaves.

I also started to think of the white male submissive that has a
tendency towards man-hating dyke Mistresses, or even more than that
the white male who only seeks to serve a black Mistress who lays it
on thick for the lack of civil rights of in the last decade for black
people in a white male dominated society.

Of course this isn't exclussively a male pattern of behavior. These
theories can also be applied, though less strongly, to the female
submissive who sems to favor the Male dominant that has little regard
for any woman as an equal, especially a Dominant female.

It is truely fascinating how the psychology of sexuality can turn the
terrors and nightmares of reality into some of the hottest
fantasies. Keep in mind that though someone fantasizes about thse
things sexually, and plays them out in consensual roleplay, a healthy
individual knws the difference between the fantasy and the reality,
and usually detests such mistreatment in the vanilla world.

Do you have any fantasies that share this same dynamic? Does a dark
part of your past, or your culture's history manifest itself in your
sexual games?

Can you think of other examples of fetishes and role
play that share this root?

Can you think of other possible origins
of such "politically incorrect" kink?


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